Assalamualaikum,
Having confidence can really make a huge difference.
Those who have great confidence get more done, because they
believe in themselves... and they believe in their ability.
They know they're going to say the right thing and do the right thing...
and if by chance they slip up... they know they can overcome any setback.
That's confidence.
And now you can have the same level of confidence as the most confident
person you know.
The only reason why you don't have the confidence you want is
because you focus on the wrong things.
Over the years I've been able to study and work with some of the most
confident people and some of the not so confident.
I've discovered that those who are confident just seem to think differently.
They see things differently and they focus on different things.
Confident people focus on their strengths, not their weaknesses or limitations.
They work on those weaknesses and limitations so that they don't have an
impact on their life. But they focus on their strengths. They think of how and why
they can do something.
In social settings they'll focus on saying and doing the right things.
They'll talk about what they know - not what they don't know.
They believe that they can be comfortable in just about any situation.
And the reason they believe this is because they have a thought process
that allows them to exude confidence all the time.
Now you can have that same level of confidence.
First start by focusing on your strengths, not your weaknesses.
Then focus on your positive qualities, think of all the reasons why you can
do something and why people should trust you and like you.
Improve in the areas where you feel you have limitations and work on
being better at those things you're not so good at.
Change the way you see yourself and the way you see others.
Be positive and focus on why you can.
help you increase your confidence and self-esteem.
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